Apperance & Reality

To appear wise, one must talk;To be wise, one must listen.

To appear to do good, one must be busy;To do good, one must know when to stand aside.

To appear to lead, one must put oneself first;To lead, one must put oneself last.

To appear caring, one must give advice;To be caring, one must give space.

To appear to love, one must know how to give;To love, one must know also how to receive.

To appear happy, one must smile;To be happy, one must be free with tears.